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Welcome to the Work Life Lab! This is a space for exploring what works and what doesn't when trying to balance your busy work and home life. We all want the same thing- better results for the time we put in. Here I try, test, and tell you about what happens when I test ways to better get the outcomes I want. My intent is to share what works for me in the hopes that it'll work for you too. Thanks for reading!

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This is Linc in his happy place- hanging out with Opa, driving the tractor.

Summer 2022, Week 7

Guest User August 6, 2022

The kids didn’t have any camps this week—- which was good because it was otherwise jammed with fun friends and family activities.

The girls and I went downtown to the National Theatre with a gaggle of friends to see the musical Six. It is super high-energy fun, fun, fun. The tragic bios of Henry' the VIIIs six wives are converted into something surprising, entertaining, and (even if it were just for a moment) thought-provoking.

The next night we met up with the Camarotes in Baltimore for the baptism of our sweet niece and nephew. I was honored to be Hamilton’s godmother. The deacon performing the service was just wonderful and engaging. He invited Baya and Linc to help out with the service- they were delighted to have a role. It was such a beautiful evening celebrating family and faith.

Last but definitely not least, the kids got a kids-only pool party with Aunt Anna immediately followed by an epic sleepover with tractor races at Grandma and Opa’s farm.

Here’s the Week 7 highlight reel. Hope you like it!

Wonder what we’ll do to top this next week???

In personal Tags week 7, Camarote kids, things to do with kids, summer, vacation, slip and slide, tractors, baptism
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Summer 2022, Week 5

Guest User July 26, 2022

Week 5 means we’re half way through summer. So only 328 weeks to go. Kidding. We’re at the point when time is speeding up.

We kicked-off the week with another pool party at Aunt Anna’s. We then hosted a “chopped”-style cooking challenge with friends. Then we ended on a spendy shopping trip to Urban Outfitters just in time for the New Kids on the Block concert downtown. (Luckily we had help with hair and makeup from Baya.)

How’d we end up at the Mix Tape Tour concert featuring all the 90s favorites? Well, we got tickets last minute courtesy of Aunt Molly and Uncle Mike. The huge surprise was getting invited into their friend’s fancy suite with catered food, a full bar, and sparkly clean, convenient bathroom. Not exactly a normal concert experience for Marin- a first-timer! It’d be like getting bumped up to first class on your first-ever plane ride. It’s going to be hard to top this!

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Also in the Week 5 mix where a bunch of sports and camps. For example, Linc finished up 3 “totally epic” weeks of travel day camp. Each day they get on a little bus and go to some super fun, interesting activity— water park, laser tag, the aquarium, etc. The final week was an outdoor adventure camp with a ropes course, fishing, paddling, outdoor survival skills (for 8-year-olds!?), and hiking. You can imagine which activity got his only ‘not fun’ rating.

Our video highlights are below. Thanks for watching!

PS- Regular blog readers might like to know that Brian’s photography skills have NOT improved. I mean, seriously. We’re supposed to be the focus of this picture, right? Why did he need to get the open utility room door and trash can!!!???

Tags Camarote kids, summer, 2022, things to do with kids, NKOTB
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Summer 2022, Week 4

Guest User July 17, 2022

This week featured a couple of those moments when I say to myself, “Oh yeah. I forgot how much I like XYX.”

They were just little things- things you’d never think to mention if someone asked, “Hey, what do you like to do?” Nonetheless, there were little delights in an otherwise predictable week.

The first was in Omaha, NE. I was there for work and enjoyed a fun workout at their downtown Orange Theory studio followed by vegan Indian takeout (consumed in my hotel bed while watching “Beat Bobby Flay." The delightful part happened the next morning. I’d mapped out a trail run along the Missouri River. They have a footbridge that takes you into Iowa.

Get to the point, you say? I will.

Delight #1 was remember the little joy of being in two places at once. It was a quick, light moment of fun to get a picture of one sneaker in each state.

Okay. I can feel your views of me deteriorating by the sentence. What’s next? Might I redeem myself?

Delight #2 was an 8-beer sampler. It’s was a nice, just-for-us buffet of drinks. You see, I’d forgotten how much I like little tastes of a lot of things (food, wine, beer, ice cream, lip-gloss, etc.) So when Brian and I ended up with a kid-free night, we walked up to our local wine/beer shop for a yummy dinner and, yes, a beer tasting. Delightful!

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There were a lot of other really cool things for the kids this week— and some challenges, too.

Here are our video highlights!

Looking forward to seeing what surprises come with Week 5!




Tags beer tasting, summer, Camarotes, Camarote kids, Omaha, pedestrian bridge
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Kids getting boba tea.*

Summer 2022, Week 3

Guest User July 10, 2022

For the uninitiated, Boba tea (or bubble tea) is creamy or fruity, very sweet tea with chewy balls at the bottom. If you’re trying it for the first time, I’d highly recommend:

  • Studying the menu for at least a week ahead of time. Then plan on ordering whatever the very cute but apathetic teenage cashier with extravagantly long lashes suggests. Don’t rely on your own knowledge of what you like. You don’t know.

  • Then, specify your sweetness level. 0, 10, 30, 50, or 70%???!!! Huh? I’m not even a dentist and this seems like a bad idea.

  • Most importantly, know that boba tea is a cool kid thing. Act annoyed when drinking it so you don’t mess up the “ass-thet-ic.” What, huh? Those words don’t even make sense.

Before I paid $17 to learn the lessons above, we had had a crazy week. It started with dropping the girls off at camp. We then celebrated the 4th with our dear friends and neighbors. Unfortunately, it was also our turn for Covid. Ugh.

We’re all better now, have our girls back and are looking forward to week 4! Thanks for watching our video!

In personal Tags Camarote kids, camp, summer, 2022, things to do with kids, boba tea
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Linc and friends at their lemonade/cookie/Starburst stand. What a hit!

Summer 2022, Week 2

Guest User July 2, 2022

This week was all about making stuff— a genius base for our badminton net thanks to Opa, a lemonade stand, and coding small machines at camp.

In personal Tags Camarote kids, things to do, summer, lemonade stand
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Last pic after the last run of the day— ending a great weekend on a high note!

Last pic after the last run of the day— ending a great weekend on a high note!

Eat, Run, Play & Repeat

Guest User January 31, 2021

Whoever “they” are say most New Year’s Resolutions fall away after the second week in February. I’m beating that average.

One of my vaguer goals for 2021 was to write more on the blog. I’d decided to half-ass it even more than normal by posting bulleted lists with a couple of pictures. After all, the intent behind the blog is to provide evidence to my future self and kids that we did some stuff. This was my attempt to lower the bar basically to the ground. As a master listed, I figured this shouldn’t be too hard.

Well. I’m at exactly zero posts for January.

And that’s fine. Sort of.

These posts aren’t due to anyone else- which is precisely the problem. I deliver on anything with someone else expecting it on the other end. This is not that. So many of my ideas get stowed in a black hole of a bucket called “maybe someday.”

I rationalize not writing by reciting my wishful thinking that I should be able to write as fast as I can type (I would have crushed in the secretarial pool.) Because writing feels slow, it also feels indulgent- an emotion that’s hard to add to the pile of other stuff I already feel guilty about.

So here I am on a quiet, snowy morning. All the “have to dos” are pretty much done so, here I go restarting my resolution to write bullet-y, picture-y posts on the blog.

And what exactly did January 2021 look like ‘round here? I’ll say upfront that this is just the easy, light kid stuff. Streaming through the minds of all the adults involved were the politics and attacks on the Capitol, a hope-filled inauguration, and the ongoing mess of school reopening (or not, as is the case.)

We started with a big barn bang. We took a family horseback riding lesson at @TalbotRun in Mount Airy. It’s one a handful of activities that everyone enjoys equally. We left chatty, laughing, and smelling like horseshit. Joy, joy, joy.

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We ate well. One of my goals for the year is to get the kids cooking more and expanding their tastes beyond syrup and anything in nugget form. My sister and her husband gave us a gift certificate to a super fancy restaurant in DC with this gorgeous winterized outdoor patio. The food was just amazing. Linc had a Sprite. Meanwhile, we sampled all the major meal delivery services- Home Chef, Blue Apron, and Hello Fresh. All were great. We have one more to try before deciding if we’ll keep this going.

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Brian and I continued our training programs for the 50K trail ultra in March. Running and thinking about running now occupies the few brain cells leftover after kids, work, and what’s for dinner. Last week, I did my first marathon-distance training run—which just surprised me for reasons I might write down at some point. The key takeaway is that it feels good to do something you never thought you could or would—even if your legs feel like concrete pilings afterwards.

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We celebrated Marin’s 10th birthday on January 24th. We were so fortunate to have use of a good friend’s spacious and comfy ski house at Deep Creek. Conditions were great. Like horseback riding, everyone loves skiing. This eliminates the need for Brian or me to cajole or bribe them into participating- so it’s more fun for all. The girls skied their first black diamond. Baya is an exceptional and fearless skier. What makes it (secretly) fun for us is seeing how much she enjoys being better than her siblings in this one sport.

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And lastly- the hair ordeal of 2021. After several days of hot tubbing and hot shotting around the slopes, Baya developed a knot that felt (no kidding) like a dead squirrel attached to her head. It started below her right ear curved around her neck. After a lot of trying and tears, we took her to the Hair Cuttery. They were AMAZING- so patient and kind. What started as a job for one woman, turned into 3. They worked and worked on her for about an hour and finally were able to comb and cut most of it out. We all resolved to really, really this time be good about brushing and braiding each day. I see another trip back for a serious trim in our near future.

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Anyway, that’s all for now. I hope to see me back here some time before 4th of July!

In personal Tags things to do, things to do with kids, Wisp, Deep Creek, Talbot Run stables, horseback riding, skiing, Virginia, Falls Church City, Camarote kids, running, trail races
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The Work Life Lab is a place to explore ways to strike a better balance. professionally and personally. Getting the outcomes you want with more positive impact requires a new mindset and a different way of working. It involves knowing what matters most, focusing your efforts, and managing your time. I believe small changes can create big results. And, I believe in you.

Links to my contributions on these great sites are below.

  • 2023
    • Jan 3, 2023 Holiday Highlights from 2022 Jan 3, 2023
  • 2022
    • Dec 30, 2022 First Annual "Cocktails and Carbs" Contest Dec 30, 2022
    • Dec 30, 2022 Christmas Blowup Tour 2022 Dec 30, 2022
    • Dec 30, 2022 Thanksgiving weekend 2022 + Brian's 50th! Dec 30, 2022
    • Dec 30, 2022 Terror on Timber! Halloween 2022 Dec 30, 2022
    • Dec 30, 2022 Snip and Sip 2022 Dec 30, 2022
    • Dec 30, 2022 Summary 2022, Labor Day Weekend! Dec 30, 2022
    • Dec 30, 2022 Summer 2022, Week 10 Dec 30, 2022
    • Dec 30, 2022 Summer 2022, Week 9 Dec 30, 2022
    • Dec 30, 2022 Summer 2022, Week 8 Dec 30, 2022
    • Aug 6, 2022 Summer 2022, Week 7 Aug 6, 2022
    • Jul 31, 2022 Summer 2022, Week 6 Jul 31, 2022
    • Jul 26, 2022 Summer 2022, Week 5 Jul 26, 2022
    • Jul 17, 2022 Summer 2022, Week 4 Jul 17, 2022
    • Jul 10, 2022 Summer 2022, Week 3 Jul 10, 2022
    • Jul 2, 2022 Summer 2022, Week 2 Jul 2, 2022
    • Jun 25, 2022 Summer 2022, Week 1 Jun 25, 2022
    • Apr 3, 2022 Building the Butterfly Fence Apr 3, 2022
  • 2021
    • Nov 21, 2021 5Ks Both Days Nov 21, 2021
    • Aug 15, 2021 Blue Skies and Red Rocks: Our summer vacation in Utah Aug 15, 2021
    • Aug 2, 2021 Winding back July Aug 2, 2021
    • Jul 18, 2021 Last-ish Jul 18, 2021
    • Jul 1, 2021 Winding back June Jul 1, 2021
    • Apr 2, 2021 San Fran, Yosemite, San Fran: Spring Break 2021 Apr 2, 2021
    • Mar 14, 2021 50K All Day Mar 14, 2021
    • Mar 11, 2021 2 days to go and all the feelings Mar 11, 2021
    • Feb 8, 2021 Getting a grip Feb 8, 2021
    • Feb 6, 2021 Remembering Papa Feb 6, 2021
    • Jan 31, 2021 Eat, Run, Play & Repeat Jan 31, 2021
    • Jan 13, 2021 Restlessness Jan 13, 2021
    • Jan 4, 2021 Winter Break Roundup: 2020 Jan 4, 2021
  • 2020
    • Dec 31, 2020 A Different Approach to Setting Goals Dec 31, 2020
    • Dec 26, 2020 All the Christmas-y Feelings Dec 26, 2020
    • Dec 24, 2020 I'm 46 and Ready for Round Two Dec 24, 2020
    • Dec 23, 2020 Keep it Simple Sweetheart Dec 23, 2020
    • Dec 22, 2020 When its harder to stop than start Dec 22, 2020
    • Dec 21, 2020 Garden Variety Fear and Laziness Dec 21, 2020
    • Dec 20, 2020 Thoughts on Loop Dec 20, 2020
    • Aug 24, 2020 Alaska Day 13: Headed Home Aug 24, 2020
    • Aug 24, 2020 Alaska Day 12: Our first and last sunset Aug 24, 2020
    • Aug 20, 2020 Alaska Day 11: "It couldn't be funner" Aug 20, 2020
    • Aug 19, 2020 Alaska Day 10: "Zero! Zero out of 5 stars" Aug 19, 2020
    • Aug 19, 2020 Alaska Day 9: How many more minutes? Aug 19, 2020
    • Aug 17, 2020 Alaska Day 8: Sea life bucket list Aug 17, 2020
    • Aug 16, 2020 Alaska Day 7: "I promise to protect..." Aug 16, 2020
    • Aug 15, 2020 Alaska Day 6: Good job, BOYS! Aug 15, 2020
    • Aug 15, 2020 Alaska Day 5: Fish On Aug 15, 2020
    • Aug 13, 2020 Alaska Day 4: Throwing Rocks Aug 13, 2020
    • Aug 12, 2020 Alaska Day 3: Linc, look! Aug 12, 2020
    • Aug 11, 2020 Alaska Day 2: Don't get litten Aug 11, 2020
    • Aug 10, 2020 Alaska Day 1: The 28-hour birthday. Aug 10, 2020
    • Aug 5, 2020 Called to a bigger role: How our PTAs might help save us this fall Aug 5, 2020
    • May 5, 2020 Eight Things I Want for Mother's Day May 5, 2020
    • May 3, 2020 From Yesterday to 10 Years from Now May 3, 2020
    • Apr 14, 2020 Back for More Apr 14, 2020
    • Mar 24, 2020 Missing What I Have Mar 24, 2020
    • Mar 23, 2020 We Needed a New Plan Mar 23, 2020
    • Mar 19, 2020 Woman for Vice President! Mar 19, 2020
    • Mar 18, 2020 Eat, Walk, Hang Out. Repeat. Mar 18, 2020
    • Mar 16, 2020 I Need a Compass Mar 16, 2020
    • Mar 15, 2020 We're Up and Running. Ish. Mar 15, 2020
    • Mar 14, 2020 We Need a Plan Mar 14, 2020
  • 2019
    • Oct 6, 2019 Disney Our Way Oct 6, 2019
    • Sep 3, 2019 Why Name-Requesting Teachers Is About Us, Not Them Sep 3, 2019
    • Aug 3, 2019 Iceland, Iceland Baby Aug 3, 2019
    • Jul 15, 2019 Camping is like flying Jul 15, 2019
    • Mar 21, 2019 Voted Least Likely to Succeed as a Test Proctor Mar 21, 2019
  • 2018
    • Nov 23, 2018 Maybe one day I'll laugh about this Nov 23, 2018
    • May 22, 2018 What is this blog about? May 22, 2018
    • May 12, 2018 Surviving the Annual Girls Trip May 12, 2018
    • Apr 11, 2018 Traveling with Kids Is Too Easy Apr 11, 2018
    • Feb 19, 2018 The answer is E. All of the above Feb 19, 2018
    • Feb 4, 2018 The Rules on the Bus Go 'Round and 'Round Feb 4, 2018
    • Jan 21, 2018 The plan for the plan Jan 21, 2018
    • Jan 17, 2018 Skipping Rocks Jan 17, 2018
  • 2017
    • Nov 23, 2017 My better Thanksgiving Nov 23, 2017
    • Oct 29, 2017 Alternatives to the Twilight Boarding Zone Oct 29, 2017
    • Oct 23, 2017 Never make another decision about what to eat Oct 23, 2017
    • Oct 22, 2017 Call me hot sauce (maybe?) Oct 22, 2017
    • Oct 18, 2017 What happens at Pawpaws house... Oct 18, 2017
    • Oct 10, 2017 Awkward things you could say to your boss in an elevator Oct 10, 2017
    • Oct 4, 2017 Outraged cereal-lovers unite! Oct 4, 2017
    • Sep 10, 2017 At the end of the day, this is what I really want to know Sep 10, 2017
    • Sep 4, 2017 End with the beginning in mind Sep 4, 2017
    • Aug 29, 2017 Staring Off Into Space (and the Contents of Your Stomach) Aug 29, 2017
    • Aug 22, 2017 Create a Beautiful Arrangement in 18 Simple Steps Aug 22, 2017
    • Aug 14, 2017 Notes from the Newly Literate Aug 14, 2017
    • Aug 6, 2017 Good morning! $1 lemonade! Aug 6, 2017
    • Jul 30, 2017 I left my stomach back there Jul 30, 2017
    • Jul 23, 2017 The Recipe That Made Me Cry 'Uncle' Jul 23, 2017
    • Jul 16, 2017 Eat like it's 1947 Jul 16, 2017
    • Jul 13, 2017 Catch and Release a Lightning Bug: Week 2 of our Summer "Learn to Try" Challenge Jul 13, 2017
    • Jul 5, 2017 Do a Cartwheel: Week 1 of our Summer "Learn to Try" Challenge Jul 5, 2017
    • Jun 26, 2017 Summer "Learn to Try" Challenge Jun 26, 2017
    • Jun 21, 2017 If I don't say thanks, I'll cry Jun 21, 2017
    • Jun 15, 2017 Do you have a condiment? Jun 15, 2017
    • Jun 7, 2017 How Not to Take a Picture of Your Wife Jun 7, 2017
    • Jun 1, 2017 'Til Dirt Do Us Part Jun 1, 2017
    • May 26, 2017 All's well that ends well: Linc's birth story May 26, 2017
    • May 5, 2017 Totally Soaked May 5, 2017
    • Apr 12, 2017 Spring Mini-Break Apr 12, 2017
    • Apr 7, 2017 Planting our garden Apr 7, 2017
    • Jan 25, 2017 Small Changes, Big Impacts Jan 25, 2017
    • Jan 19, 2017 Up In the Air. Again. Jan 19, 2017
    • Jan 10, 2017 Passive Directives Jan 10, 2017
    • Jan 3, 2017 Creating a Vision Board with Kids Jan 3, 2017
    • Jan 2, 2017 the rest is still uncolored Jan 2, 2017
  • 2016
    • Oct 4, 2016 Love Warrior, Special Book Report post Oct 4, 2016
    • Jul 4, 2016 Happy 4th! Jul 4, 2016
    • Jun 13, 2016 Oh, Orlando Jun 13, 2016
    • Jun 10, 2016 How Not to Travel With Kids Jun 10, 2016
    • Jun 2, 2016 Sisterly Advice Jun 2, 2016
    • May 20, 2016 No. Thank YOU. May 20, 2016
    • May 16, 2016 Successful working parent partnerships May 16, 2016
    • May 13, 2016 Rain, rain May 13, 2016
    • Mar 1, 2016 Clutter's Global Reach, a guest post from Evan Zislis Mar 1, 2016
    • Jan 26, 2016 Newly pregnant at work Jan 26, 2016
    • Jan 12, 2016 far out Jan 12, 2016
    • Jan 5, 2016 worry along for the ride Jan 5, 2016
    • Jan 3, 2016 Welcome back! Jan 3, 2016
  • 2015
    • Oct 30, 2015 Let's clean house Oct 30, 2015
    • Oct 7, 2015 a more graceful transition Oct 7, 2015
    • Oct 4, 2015 promises and intentions Oct 4, 2015
    • Sep 3, 2015 today we say goodbye Sep 3, 2015
    • Aug 17, 2015 dressed out Aug 17, 2015
    • Aug 3, 2015 move right Aug 3, 2015
    • Jul 17, 2015 Shake it off Jul 17, 2015
    • Jun 16, 2015 into africa Jun 16, 2015
    • Apr 29, 2015 Hey B'More, what's my action? Apr 29, 2015
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Work Life Lab by Robin Camarote

Finding balance through trial and error

The Work Life Lab is a place to explore what works- and what doesn't- when trying to strike that elusive sense of work-life balance. I'm a working mom with three kids. I try things and share my experiences with the hopes that some of the best strategies might work for you too.

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